Tuesday 30 December 2008

How to Save a Failing Relationship

Relationship is always a complex area to deal with and there is no definite answer or ways to save a failing relationship. Even if your situation seems hopeless and impossible, you may still stand a chance to restore your relationship if you are willing to do something about it.

Below are some of the useful tips to help save your failing relationship:

i) Identify the root cause of your failing relationship - before anything can be done about your relationship, you must find out what are the underlying reasons that cause your relationship with your lover can get to this stage. It is particularly important to ask yourself and your partner why this relationship is not working? It is also imperative to get objective answers to this question.

ii) Admit your difficulty with your relationship and be willing to change - your willingness to change and to accept the fact that you are having difficulty with your relationship could be one of the important factors to save your failing relationship. A lot of failing relationship happens is because of either you or your lover is reluctant to admit the difficulty of the relationship and therefore reluctant to sit down for open discussion.

iii) Communication - communication break down and lack of understanding could be the main reason that why a relationship is failing. If both of you are still in love, it is important that you and your lover should sit down together and just talk to each other. Find a quiet place, maybe a quiet restaurant to have a open discussion about your current situation. Be positive about your relationship and so long as you don't give up, you still stand a chance to save your failing relationship.

There are many ways to save a failing relationship whether it is conventional or unconventional. If you are preparing to change and are willing to take the initiative to identify the underlying reasons of your failing relationship, you would be able to restore your relationship.

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